A lot of divorcing couples express a desire to “take the high road” during divorce and the collaborative divorce process supports the couple in this desire. Often a spouse will fall short due to divorce being transactional (“I give you this if you give me that”) and emotional (“you hurt me” or “I am afraid”) and the friction this causes. Taking the high road: 1. Allows you to be the good guy; 2. Preserves dignity and is respectful to your spouse; 3. Benefits your … [Read more...]
Facing Your Post-Divorce Future with Confidence
When facing divorce--of your choosing or not--you realize that your once clear vision of the future is upside down. To create a new vision of your future you must take action. 1. Hire The Right Lawyer For You Consider the qualities that matter most to you in an attorney-client relationship--gender, age, hourly rate, reputation, board certification, specialty, or personality? You will know you have the right lawyer for you if you feel comfortable, appropriately supported, and … [Read more...]
